The Master Knitter

Table Talk



Setting the Table

You are welcome here. Come just as you are, bringing whatever is on your heart today. Take a few moments and allow yourself to just be. Take a couple deep breaths, grab yourself a cup of coffee, light a candle, do something that brings you comfort. Allow yourself to be present in this moment. 
 
Consider the patterns of your life knit throughout your being –all the layers of lived experience that make you who you are, and how each person has their own unique and sacred patterned life story.   
 
Psalms 139:13-14
For it was you who formed my inward parts;
    you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
    Wonderful are your works;
that I know very well.

Our ability to reach unity in diversity will be the beauty and the test of our civilization.
― Mahatma Gandhi 


Food for Thought

As I have grown in my relationship to God through the years, I have come to think of God in many ways – God our Shepherd, God our Deliverer, God our Hope, God our Provider, God our Gardener are just a few examples. The image of God that is living with me in this season, where the mornings turn cooler and the night temperatures call for cozy sweaters, is God our Master Knitter. Yeah, we don’t hear God talked about too often as the knitter. But I’m here to tell you - God knits. Perhaps God is not a knitter of sweaters, but God is a knitter. 

Though I’m not a knitter, I know a bit about knitting – I have witnessed it, and received it as a gift. Knitting is a slow process. It takes concentration to make sure the right strands go in the right places to produce the pattern that will lead to a recognizable whole. The best knitters weave something beautiful out of even the most ordinary materials. And knitting holds worth and value, not only because of the expertise and patterns of the work, but that sweater, scarf, mittens your grandparent knit for you are lovely and valuable because of the hands that made it. We are the work of God’s hands. God creates our very essence, our inner being. Job says it this way: “you knitted me with skin and flesh and knitted me together with bones and sinews.” (Job 10:11)

Psalm 139 says it another way, our creator knitted us together long before we took our first breath. We are a unique creation filled with wonder and awe. Unlike anything else in God’s creation, humans are God’s special handiwork. We are the Imago Dei – made in the image of God. Each of us endowed with a special composition, fearfully and wonderfully made.

God weaves together something lovely out of even the most standard materials. In God’s expansive creation, we have Moseses, Rahabs, Nathans, Lydias, Jameses, Marys, Cheryls, all imago dei, all designed with the purpose to fulfill God’s call.

As God’s uniquely created wonders, it is not our call to nitpick what we perceive as flaws in ourselves or one another. It is not for us to identify the stitches that do not meet our standards and require conformity to our ideas of what is good. No! We are called to love who God loves; accept who God accepts and to celebrate the differences God creates.

It sounds simple to say that we should love ourselves and others with a grace that values what is both different and beautiful, but it really challenges our perspective. Our society is so critical, and we can be so critical of ourselves and others that we can lose sight of the gift of simply loving ourselves and others for our uniquenesses. This invitation to see ourselves as the masterfully knitted creations of a loving God, is a change in perspective we all deeply need.

We are called to welcome the vast variety of knitted patterns – human garments – not made by human hands, and to celebrate the full spectrum of humanity lavishly, lovingly, inclusively, unequivocally. Proudly display your garment – your patterns – knitted lovingly by God without assimilation, or adjustment. 

Remember that God the Master Knitter loves variety and diversity! Remember that God the Master Knitter loves you! 

God is intimately and actively involved in the world – in the church, in our lives – stitching, altering, repairing and transforming so that we fully value all the garments of God’s good creation – all the gifts. Gifts that are intricate and complex. Gifts that are beautiful and amazing. Gifts that were fashioned by the hands of our Creator. To God be the glory for the great things God has made! 


This week, try creating something new. Maybe try knitting if that is something you have an interest in. Notice, within your new creation, all of the different pieces that make it beautiful and unique.

As the air is cooling down, go for a walk outside and take notice of all the variety and diversity our God has masterfully knit into creation all around you.  


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Blessing

Creating God, 
you have knit your grace into our lives and our very being. Help us to see and recognize the patterns of goodness you have imparted within us and one another, and to honor them, humbly, as holy and precious. 
Amen.

A little Table Talk for your table...

  • What are some characteristics that are knit into who you are, or are a part of your lived experience that have contributed to your being who you are? 

  • Sometimes we celebrate differences easily, and other times we can become very judgmental and critical of the unique ways folks express themselves. How have you experienced this in your own life?

  • What are some unique qualities you celebrate in yourself? In others? Though we are all patterned differently from one another, we are all beloved by God.

Try taking it to the Kids Table...

  • Ask your kiddos if they have ever noticed the patterns in knit sweaters or knit caps or mittens. The strands of yarn, when knitted in particular ways, produce the varying patterns. Find some patterns or designs in the clothes they wear. 

  • Help your kiddos learn to make friendship bracelets with strands of thread or beads. These can each have a unique pattern or design. Have them share these bracelets with friends – they will be special, not only because they are beautiful and unique, but because have been hand crafted.

  • Talk with your child about what makes them special, and about how they are loved by God. Let them know that you love them too! 

Meet This week’s writer!

Rev. Cheryl Harris is an American Baptist preacher originally from Boston, MA, who is dedicated to the power of dialogue in bridging racial divides and fostering understanding. She is the founder of Cheryl Harris and Associates, Inc., which helps companies and organizations along the path to true inclusivity. Among many notably accomplishments, Cheryl earned a Master of Divinity from Boston University School of Theology, a Bachelor of Arts in English Literature from Emmanuel College, and an accreditation as a Life Coach, she has served as the pastor of the First Baptist Church in Attleboro, and is the author of "Divinity, Diversity, Dialogue: Listening and Learning Our Way to the Beloved Community". Rev. Cheryl is the mother of two adult children and has one grandson. She finds respite in listening to jazz, reading, spending time with family and friends and visiting museums.

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